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Thursday, 27 August 2009

  • I Hate Change, But.....

    I really don't like change, but I feel I need to move my blog to blogger. My paid xanga site is up in just a few weeks, so it's now or wait another year. The first reason that is pushing me to move is the reality that no blog publishers will turn xanga into a blog book. My chief motive for writing this blog is to chronicle the day to day life of our family for my children's memories. My husband has spent several hours trying to hunt down a publisher and for some reason they only exist for blogger, wordpress and typepad. In light of that, JD has also spent many, many hours reformatting my past blog entries to turn into a book for our family and at the rate I write, he will never be able to catch up. Switching to blogger will enable that to become automatic, therefore once he catches up the last two years, his blog reformatting hobby can retire!

    The second even more important reason for moving to blogger is that I should never have linked our last name to the blog. In light of our U.S. adopted son and the mess that his adoption entailed, it was a risk that I didn't fully consider when I named the blog with our last name. I have been cautious to not say where in Virginia we live, but it makes more sense to not have his full name pop up on a google search.

    So, in light of those two reasons, I have created www.ourplansmultiplied.blogspot.com. You wouldn't believe how difficult is was to find a name that wasn't already taken, but our plans have been multiplied by God and the title fits us perfectly. So, the truth is that I have many, many xanga friends that are constantly an encouragement to me and I don't want to lose you guys. I will maintain my xanga account for reading other's blogs and I'm not sure how I'll handle my current xanga blog. For now, it will just sit and I'll continue on at the new blog address. 

Tuesday, 25 August 2009

  • Julia - tude

    If I've ever given the impression that Julia is a breeze to parent, rest assure that isn't the case. She has an attitude bigger than her cute little cheeks. I'm amazed that you can add an 8th child to your family as a baby, and she comes assuming that she should run the show! It's kind of humorous because when we added Julia if was because there was a flood of baby girls that came into the orphanage that week that needed families. We thought, seven or eight - what's the difference; we can do it. Well, there's a difference! What Julia has so going for her is that she is so funny and really such a joy, that it more than makes up for the struggles. This is the Julia I just found when I emerged from putting Elijah down for his morning nap.

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    I asked her where her clothes were as I had personally gotten her dressed this morning. Her reply, "I peed them." I launched into my reminder that Dad isn't going to bring her a fruit leather home from work, due to her accident. She told me, "I know Mom, I don't get it, I peed, I'm so sad."  This is my latest attempt at bribing Julia to be truly potty-trained; she was totally capable over a year ago! Will it make a difference? I don't know.... Julia has a mind of her own! (and excellent fashion sense, why get new clothes out of the drawer when you can create a wrap out of a hand-towel that is fit to wear outside.)

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    As an example of the moments that she melts my heart -  Yesterday I came home and she came running to the door, yelling, "Mom's home, my best friend, my best friend, Mom." Yah, I'll keep her in spite of the peed clothes on the bathroom floor!

Monday, 24 August 2009

  • It Had To Be Done

    I couldn't put it off any longer -

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    I was constantly brushing Elijah's hair out of his eyes -

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    Look how long it was all the way around -

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    So, I trimmed it all the way around. It wasn't easy and it's probably not truly even, but the trauma was minimal. He contemplated crying, but didn't actually give in.

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    Best of all, he recovered very quickly -

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    And then we did his favorite thing - made cookies. I'm not kidding, my barely one year old loves to make cookies.

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    Here he is playing the drum on the flour tupperware and singing along.

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    And the good news is that we can now see his eyes.

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    Simple pleasures.

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Sunday, 23 August 2009

  • Adam, Eve and Tori

    Tori was looking at the cover of The Beginner's Bible with its many cartoon Bible characters. She pointed to Adam and Eve and asked, "are those two the bad guys?" I told her that I wouldn't call them bad guys. She looked closer and said, "yes, that's them; they are the two that snuck into the garden and ate the poisonous apple."

    JD and I had a long haul to a doctor appointment with just Tori and Elijah the other day. She talked nonstop for about seven hours! I guess that's normal, but she usually has many other kids to share her jabber with. It was hours of "Mom, mom......" At several points we had to tell her to stop talking long enough that we could finish a thought. She was very entertaining however. When we parked in a parking garage with different animals on each level, she explained to me that the sign showed that there were crabs in the garage walls, hence the crab pictures, and we needed to watch for their claws. On the way home, we ate dinner at a Chinese buffet. When I took her in the bathroom, she exclaimed, "Boy, I've never been in a bathroom like this!" I asked her why as it looked much like 100 bathrooms that I've taken her in before. She said, "because, this is a Chinese bathroom!" 

    I love the reasoning of little people!

    Aside from Tori's funnies, this last week without phone or internet has been filled with challenges. I often think back to the logic that the good and bad in life run parallel, like railroad tracks, much more than the mountains and valleys that everyone refers to. In fact, often the good and bad are closely intertwined as the model is good that God designed, but tainted with sin. It seems obvious that having nine children would mean that I'm asking for challenges to my day, but somehow I still get disappointed when they occur. I am praying for wisdom in how to precede in a few situations in life. In the meantime, I need to work on maintaining joy as much during four hour standoffs over writing five sentences as punishment -

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    as I do in making cookies with my helpers!

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    James 1:2 - Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds.........

Sunday, 16 August 2009

  • Down Time

    Yesterday morning, our new neighbor installed his new mailbox right where our phone and DSL cable lived; now our lines are dead. Of course we called the phone company and they promise to be PROMPTLY out by next Friday. So, this obviously provides a wonderful opportunity to focus on our family and our new fall plans. Be back when I have wires. God bless..

    Jenny and crew.

Saturday, 15 August 2009

  • The Weaver

    The Weaver by B. Franklin
     
    My life is just a weaving
    Between my Lord and me.
    I cannot choose the colors
    He weaves so skillfully.

    Sometimes He weaveth sorrow
    And I in foolish pride
    Forget He sees the upper
    And I the underside.

    Not ‘til the loom is silent
    And the shuttles cease to fly
    Will God unroll the canvas
    And explain the reasons why-

    The dark threads are as needful,
    In The Weaver’s skillful hands
    As the threads of gold and silver
    In the pattern He has planned.

Thursday, 13 August 2009

  • Positive and Negative Media

    I've been pondering the power of the media in all of our lives; it's a great influence even if you don't want it to be. Take for example Spiderman. My boys love Spiderman even though they've never seen a movie. He's plastered on cereal boxes and backpacks, as are Hannah Montana and countless other names we all know even if we wish we didn't. Other media messages are more subtle, yet also powerful. I was considering two movies that one could consider "love" stories - Titanic and Fireproof. I recently heard Titanic referred to as one of the greatest love stories of our time. That baffles me as there wasn't any love in the movie that I can recall at all; it was basic lust, pure and simple. Now, I only saw it once, so maybe there was a love story in there somewhere that I don't remember, but it definitely wasn't between the main characters of the movie! I think that movie was a huge disservice to young people everywhere that saw it and bought the lie that the main characters were "in love." If those two had married, they wouldn't have lasted two years! Contrast Titanic to Fireproof - that's a love story. The husband worked to love his wife; sometimes against every emotion that he was feeling.

    Love is patient, love is kind.........does not seek it's own. I Cor. 13

    On the same media contrast thought, Warner Brothers produced a recent horror movie entitled "There's Something Wrong With Esther." This movie does a huge disservice to the orphans in our world today. It portrays a modern day orphan as a psychopath in the movie. There has been a campaign to shame WB into giving proceeds from the movie to orphan charities; which is the least they should do considering the damage they are causing to the children that are most vulnerable in today's world! Thankfully, on the coat-tails of Esther, there is

    The Blind Side -

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    It's not everyday that I cry just watching the trailer to a movie. I hope it's as good as it looks!

    As for my puppy happy ending, the last puppy will be heading off to his new home tomorrow. I found excellent homes for all four of them AND I succeeded in not acquiring a 5th dog. It wasn't easy though; look where little Magnum sleeps waiting for his kids to come out and play.

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    On a hilarious footnote, as I was posting this blog, Tori said, "Mom, are we going to keep Magnum?" I said, "No, we are not. He is going to his new home tomorrow. His new Mommy is coming to get him." Tori asked, "Does his new Mommy look like him? I mean, is she white, with black spots?" I laughed and said, "No, Tori, his new Mommy is a person, not a dog." Her eyes got huge and she said, "How can that be, Mom?"

Wednesday, 12 August 2009

Tuesday, 11 August 2009

  • Well, I'm Ready - Pretty Much

    It's amazing how many hours go into planning a new school year. Since I'm using My Father's World, most of the work has been done for me, even the lesson plans are preprinted (for only $90!) However, there is still gathering the materials, extra books, reading and planning. In my case I spend time and anxiety on how am I going to juggle all the little people and keep the school kids on task? Also, how am I going to have the "read aloud" time that this curriculum calls for? There are no perfect years, so we'll just get up everyday and accomplish all that we can, (and work right through next summer if we have to.) So, it's almost two in the afternoon and I'm not yet dressed, BUT I found my school table which means the books are organized and put away.

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    I also cleaned out "the cabinet." The cabinet is where all the hands on stuff as well as the preschool stuff is stored. The little kids aren't allowed in the top part, but I give them "school" items out of there most days to occupy them during school time. The bottom part they can get in themselves, but only during school hours.

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    While I was finishing up, Ben started pushing Elijah around the kitchen in a box. Elijah thought it was a great time and would start whining anytime Ben stopped. When I showed Ben the pictures I took, his response was, "Good, my teeth look good and white in that picture." Our big Ben dental bills haven't been to whiten his teeth, but I'm glad he's happy.

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    Just when I thought we were tomatoed out, look what was dropped off at our house last night.

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    The good news is that we are just eating them; these little guys aren't being turned into salsa!

Monday, 10 August 2009

  • Not Happening

    Today was begin 1/2 of our new school curriculum day - it's not happening! For starters, here's my school room table. Everything on that table is there for a reason, like I have to read it, organize it, figure out where it fits in, etc. So, once I clear the table and clean out the cabinet that I use for all the manipulatives, puzzles and other school time items, we should be ready to go. Since we are doing VBS every night this week, I'm thinking next week is better anyway. But since I have three major doctor appointments with three different kids next week, the week after may look even better!

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    The good news is that I finished braiding Julia's hair today. It took several hours spread over three sessions, before and after salsa making. She woke up in time to snap this picture; not in time to be happy about the picture, just in time to take it! (I'm thinking it actually looks better in real life than the picture.)

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    We are off to VBS.

Sunday, 09 August 2009

  • Salsa Season

    I always say that I love canning, however in the middle of it I always wonder why. I think the thrill comes in at the end, when it's done and I know that it will last a year. Last year, I canned about 18 jars of salsa and they only lasted six months, so this year I did 38. 38 quart jars is almost 10 gallons of salsa! I did half of it yesterday and the other half today. Today's batch has some added cheyenne pepper for a bit of kick.

    The big issue yesterday was onion chopping.  By the time we finished the onions, my sister, myself, Moriah, Alyssa, James and Ben had all fled the kitchen in tears from the poignant fumes! The fumes were unbearable in spite of trying all sorts of anti-onion crying theories. In the end, this year's swim goggles seem to work the best, but it wasn't a perfect solution.

    Here's Ben pre-goggles -

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    Here's Aunt Deb and Alyssa peeling onions with the goggles. (She will really thank me for that picture later!)

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    Today, JD peeled all the onions, with no goggles and no tears. Go figure. He claimed it had something to do with being teargassed in the military. Either way, it made today's salsa making much more pleasant! Ben still helped feed the onions into the food processor.

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    Here's today's tomatoes ready for boiling and peeling.

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    And today's chopped green peppers, hot peppers and onions.

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    Here's one days crop of salsa, minus the few jars that my sister took home. They fit perfectly in the old Amish canning cupboard that I bought at a little antique shop a few years ago.

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    I figured out that each quart jar ended up costing $1.65. That was getting 25 pounds of tomatoes for free and paying 40 cents a pound for the other 25 pounds. The major expense was green peppers, as I bought about $20 of them. So, next year when I grow my own green peppers, it will cost even less. Overall, although it's a lot of work; it tastes way better, is better for you and quite a bit cheaper.

Friday, 07 August 2009

  • Food, Fridges and Groceries Galore

    You know it takes a lot to feed my tribe three (at least!) times a day everyday. I feel like I spend the majority of my life in the kitchen, and even then somedays I don't have any dinner ideas by 6:00. Today felt like one of those days. I've been planning on doing an all day cook day tomorrow with my sister, in fact I've been planning it for two weeks. My planning, however, never materialized into list making and shopping for the big event, so it has turned into a salsa canning event instead. I still had to clean out the fridges and go regular grocery shopping today, which can be an event in it's own. Here's Elijah helping himself to an apple during fridge cleaning time. He was biting off the peel and spitting it out - very helpful indeed.

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    As I was cleaning out the fridge, I found SIX half used egg cartons of eggs. I began thinking that I could use an Alice on Brady Bunch. I bet she never waited a whole week to clean the fridge and found six different egg cartons! Now that I'm posting this, the picture only shows five, but I'm sure I counted six.

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    Oh, those six cartons didn't include the two that were hardboiled either!

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    So, now that I returned from shopping, I thought I'd enlighten those of you with just a few kids how my shopping looks even though I do go every week. I've never figured out how large families only go every two - four weeks! Here's the cereal I bought; now granted, I bought 40 boxes because it was on sale and it will last much longer than a week - maybe three whole weeks!

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    Here's my second fridge. It is completely full of milk, eggs and melons. My friend Wendy blessed us with several melons from her garden.

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    Lastly, tomorrow is salsa making day(on top of Julia hair day and get ready for Monday school day.) I pretty much bought every green pepper that the Commissary had. I pick up my boxes of tomatoes tomorrow and away we'll go. I kept my receipt to figure out how much it really costs me to make salsa; it definitely tastes better than any I buy.

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    If we could all take a break from eating for a week, I could get a ton done!

Wednesday, 05 August 2009

  • Unofficial Birthday Pictures and Puppies

    When I took Elijah's official birthday pictures, Julia joined us for the event. Although it was Julia's birthday too, I wanted to redo her hair before her picture hour. She always manages to be camera worthy, however, so we have the unofficial Julia birthday pictures.

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    These looks are without prompting, mind you.

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    The good puppy news is that since I put them on Craigs list this morning, I have had tons of requests for pictures. So, hopefully, they will all be placed in good homes in just a few days. Here's my favorite, the kids named him Magnum.

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Tuesday, 04 August 2009

  • Lucky, Lucky Me

    I don't know what the deal is. First of all, we have never, ever had animals dumped in our driveway before this year. Then the whole litter of kittens came a few months ago. I dismissed that as chance or perhaps because an animal control officer lives on our street and people dumped them to avoid paying the $5 per animal pound check in fee. Now, we have a whole litter of puppies. At this point, my husband and friends claim that the word is out that I'm a softie, however, the dumpers don't know that I kept the kittens instead of calling animal control. Last night JD and I went out to dinner when Alei called out of breath. I was becoming quite concerned listening to her as she panted her way through, "I...don't...think...you...are...going...to...be...very..happy..about..this." That can strike fear into any mother's heart as her kids are home is their teen sibling's care! Anyway, our renter discovered the puppies at the end of the driveway and came to bless us with the news. So, I have four darling puppies. They were scared and very hungry last night; today they are friendly and have bulging little bellies. Puppy anyone?

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    Maybe I should post a sign at the end of the driveway, "Please get your dogs and cats spayed. My emotions and budget can't afford this!"

Monday, 03 August 2009

Sunday, 02 August 2009

  • Swim Finals

    Poor JD left the house yesterday morning at 6:00 am with Moriah, Alyssa, James and Ben. Gabriel, Elijah and I didn't have to leave until 10:00. The under 10 crowd swam finals in the morning and 10 and over swam in the afternoon; we are always blessed with children in both categories so we bake all day! The night before the meet we bought a cover at Wal-Mart, I have to say that yesterday alone was worth the $80! Since we are on our 6th year of swim team, we should have bought one a long time ago!

    Here's only a portion of the covers set up to survive the heat. There must have been a few hundred.

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    Here's the Foringer camp.

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    Unfortunately we didn't think to send the camera with JD, so we didn't get action shots of the younger three swimming. I will say that James was put in Ben's relay at the last minute and they came in first place. We are so proud of both of them; they could barely swim the length of the pool at the beginning of the season.

    Here's my three 10 and under swimmers: Alyssa, James and Ben -

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    Here's last minute hero, James -

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    Here's Ben reading the finals book. I never did a post, but he was selected swimmer of the week one week last month. He was actually featured in the paper twice, since the first time they told his story but put the wrong picture in!

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    Here's our little Buddy wearing his team shirt and eating the BAD sucker that someone gave Alyssa.

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    Since the camera arrived in time for Gabriel and Moriah's races, JD captured some action shots. Here's Gabriel awaiting the signal. He came in 2nd in the IM (individual medley) which is four lengths of the pool with four different strokes.

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    Back stroke -

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    Butterfly -

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    Here's Moriah on the dive platform -

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    and diving in -

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    Another good season. Tori has begged to do swim team the last two years. She will be five next summer and can swim if she works hard to pass the test. They have to be able to swim the length of the pool, tread water for a full minute and retrieve an item from the bottom of the four foot end of the pool. We'll see..... She can swim but can't do any of those yet.

Saturday, 01 August 2009

  • A Quick Update and More Swimming

    Life is flying by; I can't believe it's August already. I am actually planning on starting half of our back to school curriculum next Monday although I'm not sure that it's the best timing since we have VBS all week in the evenings. The next week doesn't look too good either, since I have three major doctor appointments that require some travel. So, I think I'll just plunge in with half the work load for the next two weeks; it seems to always go better when we start with a smaller amount of work to ease back in. I'm really excited about what we are doing this year. Gabriel and Alei are completely doing online dual enrollment high school and college. I have switched to Our Father's World for Moriah, Alyssa, James and Ben. It is a Sonlight style unit study that includes everything but grammar, phonics and math. The one that I chose this year is a geography and missions focus, it looks like I will learn a lot!

    As for fun on the crazy farm, we had a chicken hatch some babies yesterday. She has sat on eggs before and they never hatched, but this time she pulled it off. What I'm not sure is where to put her and her babies. I'm up to three different chicken areas and I'm out of private chicken apartments. For those who know nothing about chickens, they don't usually get along with other chickens that are different sizes or colors! Right now her babies keep falling out of the brooder box, but I don't want to move her and them since she is still sitting on more eggs.

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    Last night we were blessed by a big, wonderful train table from some friends. Since Alei moved herself downstairs to Aunt Deb's old room, our new "guest room" is upstairs and pretty empty. I stuck it in there for now, but it's definitely so big that it's permanent home will be in the basement playroom. As for the basement, we made a list to get back to work on finishing the basement. Since we are obviously not closing on the permanent loan on our home this year, we need to boost the appraisal by finishing up the basement. We have already bought all the supplies; they are stacked neatly down there!

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    I have to say that this is the first house that we have ever had extra room or a guest room! It's been really great with Debra staying here and all our summer company, but someday this will turn into Elijah's room. Too bad that Alei chose pink paint, I'll have to repaint for my little man!

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    Today is swimming finals. After about eight hours of the miserable heat, it will be another swim season conquered! I'm so disappointed with myself, I haven't taken any pictures all season and never even did a post on Ben getting selected swimmer of the week. I'll have to a do a  season recap tomorrow!

Wednesday, 29 July 2009

  • Perks of One

    There are some real advantages to turning one, like being able to sample chocolate. Elijah may not have been willing to try his birthday cake, but chocolate cookie batter was not a problem.

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    The simple pleasures of life are often the best.

Tuesday, 28 July 2009

  • Oh, To Be Young

    Can you imagine being comfortable watching TV like this?

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    I was only planning on taking a picture of Tori's TV position when the hippo in Madagascar 2 started to dance, so...

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    Now, can you imagine being motivated to burn this much energy just because your movie had a good song?

    The beauty of being young!

Monday, 27 July 2009

  • What Do You Say?

    It was 11 a.m. and I was still in my pajamas, not because I was lounging around, but because my Mom took the kids to swim-team and I didn't have proper supervision for the little three left at home to take a shower. I was baking up a storm: bread, banana bread, waffles and homemade syrup. I anticipated a low-stress day since it was my Mother's last day in town and I didn't have anywhere urgent to go. Quite frankly, there are always places I should go and things I should do, but none were on the today crises list. So, what happens, but my former foster children's mother calls and tells me that the baby sitter just canceled and they need to go to court that day. I love the kids, but an extra three little people weren't in my relax plan; however, I told her they were welcome. She said, "great, we are on the way." So, I ran to the shower and the next five hours were a bit more hectic than planned, but all went well. Gabriel was in and out with work and Alei is taking college English 101 online so she spends hours in her room working. Here are the 10 kids 11 and under at lunch today. The menu was hot dogs of course. They made a huge dent in the homemade bread and banana muffins also.

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    It's a crazy life, but I still haven't thought of anything that I'd trade it for!

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  • I am living my dream of having a big family, including adopted children, and a farm. Our farm is a work in progress, but we have a beautiful Amish barn. My hard working husband and I are parents to 9 children; 5 biological and 4 adopted. Our first adoption was through Virginia and our last three are from Liberia, West Africa. The Lord has used adoption to show us our passion for the orphans of the world, who are truly "the least of these" that the Gospel refers to.